Red Hot Mommas and Red Hot Daddies aren’t always, well.. um..RED HOT. It happens. To the best of us. Work, stress, money, lack of money, bills, extended family issues and children- they all can culminate in a complete theft of ones libido. Or worse yet, the loss of both libidos.
No one sees it coming. It just happens. Slowly. Insidiously. We get too tired or mad to keep making much of an effort anymore. Tragedy strikes or an extended illness sets up shop in your home. Surviving takes precidence over romance. If this is where you are at in your marriage I say to you, “Welcome Friend! You are normal. It happens. Now do something about it.”
Before you haul out the Victoria’s Secret catalog, I want to tell you something. Lingerie won’t work. In fact you could both wear it at the same time, if that is how you roll. No judgement. It still won’t work. It might seem to for a while, but it’s just a quick fix. Not a cure. Quicker than you can max out your credit card- you’re back in the same boring boat.
So what is the secret to staying HOT? Ready? Brace yourselves! The secret to an incredible sex life is…PRAYER! Wait a minute! Who groaned? I am serious. In fact I am not only a member of the Bedroom Prayer Club- I am also a customer! (Just a little Hair Club for Men Joke) So are my friends!
I have seen first hand the power of prayer turn friends marriages from “roomate” status to “Honeymooners” almost over night. Issues that couples had struggled with a few months, some even for many years, were no match for the earnest prayer of spouses. In fact, usually it was only one spouse who was willing to put their marriage into God’s hands. Marriages that were once teetering on the brink of divorce have become passionate and functional.
I know some of you out there are a little bit freaked out right now. It’s okay. Breathe. God loves you. Every single part of you. There is nothing going on in your life or bed that he doesn’t care about. I mean, HE knows what you need better than you do. Trust HIM with this area of your life too. You have nothing to loose. Everything to gain.
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